Sex Games and Position You Need To Try – Tonight
If you’re in a new relationship and want to display your adventurous side or if you want to re-spark excitement in your year-old relationship and surprise your partner by setting off fireworks in the bedroom, you’ve come to the right place.
Most couples aren’t happy with their sex lives because they’re tired of doing the same things in bed every day. A happy marriage can turn into a sad one as soon as your bedroom routine becomes predictable.
Not that you asked – but we’ve taken on the responsibility of spicing up your sex life. In the article – Sex Games and Position You Need To Try Tonight – we’ll tell you how to have the best sex of your life.
Pre-Requisites For The Best Sex of Your Life
Talk To Your Partner
You need to make sure your partner is okay with experimenting in the bedroom. The fact that you’re reading this article is a giveaway that you’re a little bored with your sex life. Don’t make the mistake of blaming the boredom on your partner.
There’s an old joke that “If you tell your partner they need to get better at sex, they’ll go practice with someone else.” Once your partner is ready for trying out new things, you can set rules, boundaries and talk about what you’re comfortable with and what’s out of limits.
Having toe-curling sex is easier said than done. While the games and positions mentioned in this article guarantee incredible love-making sessions, they aren’t as easy as plugging in a cable into a socket – no puns intended.
Take your partner’s consent for trying out new things in the bedroom because getting them right can take some practice and patience. A willing partner, patience, persistence and lots of lube are all you need to have the best sex of your life.
Take Your Sex Life To The Next Level
The Best Sex Games
Adult Truth and Dare
Everyone knows how much fun truth and dare can be. The game shows it’s true potential when a couple takes it to the bedroom. You should be completely honest, truthful and transparent with your partner as the goal of the game is to bring you closer – sexually and emotionally.
Think up a list of questions that might be helpful to better understand your partner, both in and out of the bedroom. Brownie points if you can make those questions sexy. Think of all the dirty things you wanted your partner to do but were too shy to ask them.
Naked Staring Contest
You get straight to business in this game. Sit directly across from each other and take off your clothes. The fun part of this game is to give exciting penalties to whoever blinks first. Get creative with the penalities.
The penalties could be something explicit like performing an erotic massage, doing a sexy dance, etc. Gross penalties could include things like putting a hand in the toilet, eating a booger, etc. We don’t know why you would spoil a sexy night by slapping such disgusting penalties – but you could.
Start and Stop
Start and stop can arguably be the most erotic teasing game. If you’re turned on by strip-teases and body flashing, start and stop is your thing. Set a timer of 5-minutes on your phone before fooling around with your partner.
Once the timer goes off, stop what you’re doing. Reset the timer, trade places, and switch activities. Nothing is more tantalizing than having something feel amazing and then taking it away. Pro tip – don’t engage in intercourse or save it for the last as you – and the game – might not last for five minutes.
Text Me Hard
Text me hard is the only game on the Sex Games and Position You Need To Try – Tonight list which is played outside the bedroom. This game is more of a precursor to your adventures under the sheets. Ask your partner to send over naughty (read – dirty) messages throughout the day. Feel free to slip in a few thirst photos into the mix.
Use this exchange to tease and turn on your partner by focusing the content on the things they like most in the bedroom. By the time you get home and can get your hands on each other, you’ll be ready to go.
Dabble in Beginner Bondage
If you’ve always wanted to try BDSM but are too intimated by it, beginner bondage is what you need. Start by tying your partner to the bed using handcuffs or blacking them out with blindfolds. As soon as your sight is taken away by the blindfolds, your anticipation mechanism is curbed. In such a situation, you can do nothing more but sit back and receive.
Sensory exploration is a great way of building intimacy while exploring new and exciting ways to connect, give, and receive pleasure. You’ll also know for sure if domination or submission is one of your kinks and if you’re ready for the real deal.
Do you know what’s better than Netflix and chill? Netflix and ice – minus the Netflix. Take an ice cube and gently press it against various areas of your partner’s body. Start with some more minor erogenous zone.
Make sure you’re gentle with the ice. You don’t want to hammer the ice cube into your partner’s skin. Keep your movements light, teasing and suggestive. Who would have thought that a small ice cube can lead to hot and smoky things in bed?
Using sex toys to explore your bodies could add a new dimension to your relationship. Use a penis ring, vibrator or a leash and knock yourselves out. Adult board games are another great option if you feel that more instructions can help with the execution.
Monkey See Monkey Do
Monkey see monkey do is a hands-on game – literally. Get your roleplay hat on and tune in to your favorite porn genre. You can do so much with this game. For example, if you’re in a submissive mood, choose porn where the other person takes charge.
As you’re watching, try and emulate the performers step-by-step. You might find your new go-to position or maybe you’ll discover you’re just not as flexible as you thought you were. Feel free to go off-script and make your way whenever you feel like it.
The Best Sex Positions You’re Not Doing
We hope the sex games go well and you’re on your way to more serious business. If you’re looking to spice up things in bed, it’s time you move past the trusted but boring doggy style, cowgirl, spooning and missionary positions.
The sex positions mentioned in the Sex Games and Position You Need To Try – Tonight will need strength, agility, and a little flexibility. While all the intercourse positions might not be for you, pick the ones that suit you. Here is a challenge for you – try all the positions in a single night.
The Standing Ovation
Technique – Have your partner sit on the edge of the bed. Enter them while standing in front. While you’re inside, have them wrap their legs around you. From there, stand upright and place your hands under your partner’s hips to support them.
This position might be a little harder for people with weaker quad and glute muscles. If it’s the case, keep your partner on the edge of the bed while you penetrate them. Since this is a strenuous position, save it for the last 30-60 seconds of your antics.
Benefits – The standing ovation allows for deeper and harder penetration. There is a higher likelihood of orgasming together as compared to the other positions.
Plug and Play
Technique – Plug and play is a modified version of the reverse cowgirl. Have your partner bend all the way forward while they extend their legs. Their upper body should be in a planking position. If you’re into butts, you’ll have the best seat ever.
Benefits – If the clitoris is a mystery to you, your partner will have enough space and time to stimulate themselves. The plug and play is a treat for couples who are into spanking.
Technique – The sex position is a more elaborate missionary move. Have your partner lay before you on the bed or couch while you stand beside it. Use your arms to lift her hips while you penetrate her.
Benefit – In the slide position, blood will rush into the woman’s head which can make sex more stimulating and pleasurable. Not to mention, this technique will be a good bicep and core workout for the man.
Technique – The waterfall requires the guy to be a little flexible. Get in position by moving to the edge of the bed and lie back with your head and shoulders on the floor. Have the woman straddle you while planting your knees into the bed with her arms.
Benefit – Because of the mental stimulation, you might climax as you’ve never before. Make sure you’re in a comfortable position and don’t slide down while thrusting.
Stand and Deliver
Technique – This position is right out of the pornos and into the Sex Games and Position You Need To Try – Tonight. It can be one of the hardest and deepest penetrations you’ve ever experienced before. With both of you standing, the woman bends over at the waist; while the guy enters her from behind. Grab the girl’s wrists and pull her into yourself with every thrust.
Benefit – Bending over during this sex position helps make the vaginal walls tighter and increases the intensity of the friction.
The Yoga Girl
Technique – The girl lies on her back while raising her legs up and back, and her ankles crossed behind her head. The yoga girl sex position will be the standard missionary position for the guy but he gets a better visual of her darling.
Benefit – If you’ve never experimented with your flexibility in the bed, and you’re able to perform this move, your guy will have some serious admiration for you. A successful yoga girl position might take some time to master but will open new doors in your sex life.
Technique – This position is also known as the “lap dance”. Sit on a chair or the edge of the bed while your partner faces you, wraps their arms around your back, climbs on top, and sits on your lap. Once in the saddle, your partner can ride up and down on your manhood by pressing with their legs or knees. You can add to the friction by thrusting.
Since the guy’s hands are free in this position, there’s a lot of room for creativity and for his hands (and fingers) to do the talking. He could stimulate erogenous areas of the lady’s upper body, head, neck, and face.
Benefit – While having sex in the face-off position you have a higher likelihood of orgasming together compared to other positions.
Technique – Until now we’ve been too theoretical in this article, but now we’ll be a little more oral – puns intended this time. Have your partner stand up-right while you get on your knees. Make your partner drape one of their legs around your shoulder while you eat them out.
Benefit – Ideal position for clit sucking, rubbing, digital penetration, G-spot stimulation. You can spice things up further by using some BDSM restraints.
I Got Ya
Technique – The girl lies with her head hanging off the edge of a bed or couch while her man spreads his legs wide apart and stands right behind her. Since the lady will be lying on her back, the guy has to thrust his tool to his liking.
Benefit – Most guys have never experienced a deep throat blowjob. If you’re the woman who gives her man this pleasure, he’ll be yours forever. The great thing about this position is that the guy can caress his darling’s breasts and clit at the same time. Its give and take – you see.
Bending Over Backwards
Technique – The bending over backward only works if your partner is super flexible and is fine with deepthroats. Have the lady “sit on your face” while she extends her arms, arches her back, and takes you in her mouth. Fun fact – this is a Kama Sutra position and is a loose variation of the beloved 69.
Benefit – Have you ever wanted to have a threesome? While this might not be an actual threesome but you get the same three-way oral sex experience.